I’m not sure why, but I have always thought about routine menial labor. Gardening has some aspects of that, for instance if you are raking a large leaf-strewn lawn or spreading large amounts of mulch around the property, but the common aspect of what I am talking about is repetitive work that almost sends you into a trance by virtue of its numbing sameness. Strangely enough, I have always felt that this sort of activity…
This fine Sunday morning, Kim has told me to sit down to discuss the upcoming week. I am long since past thinking that I have the dominant schedule in our household like I did during my working days. Kim and I have been together for twenty years now as of this month. When we first got together I was Chairman and CEO of Bear Stearns Asset Management, living in the South Street Seaport and commuting…
Last night we were invited over to some new friend’s house for a dinner party. These are newcomers to the neighborhood and they live about a mile away from us as the turkey vulture flies (they are aficionados of the turkey vulture for reasons I will explain), across a ravine to the North. We lacked the availability of any neighborhood kids to watch Buddy and we have gotten in the habit of not leaving him…
When I started riding motorcycles in high school, I don’t remember hanging out in a motorcycle shop…ever. I’ll bet they existed in Rome in those days, but it’s just not something we did. When I got back into motorcycles in my suburban days, things were different, I had settled into my career and home and was looking to add some spice to mainstream life. A motorcycle dealership showroom was just the ticket. Unlike shopping, hanging…
Why are some people risk takers and others not so much? Why am I even thinking about risk in the middle of the night, might be an even better question? But risk is a funny two-edged sword that we all confront on a daily basis whether we realize it or not. Risk tolerance varies dramatically between people due to a fascinating interplay of biological, psychological, and environmental factors. Biological influences play a significant role. Some…
Every once in a while I look around me and am in awe of my situation. I spend a lot of time pondering what to do, how to feel better doing it and how to make life better doing it. That is really a silly thing since I live in a golden era, surrounded by beauty no matter which way I turn. If I did not feel so rooted in reality, I would certainly think…
Inherited wealth has been a defining feature of human societies throughout history, shaping social structures, economic systems, and political power dynamics across civilizations. In early agricultural societies, the concept of inherited wealth emerged alongside private property ownership. Ancient Mesopotamian, Egyptian, and Greek civilizations developed sophisticated inheritance laws, with wealth typically passed down patrilineally. Roman law established detailed inheritance frameworks that influenced Western legal traditions for centuries, including concepts like wills, trusts, and legitimate heirs. The…
As I have mentioned in various past stories, I subscribe and read faithfully the National Geographic magazine. I find its array of stories extremely consistent with my interests. Those interests are about the world around us and especially about the history of our world and our species. My generation was taught Western Civilization in school and while that ethnocentrically ignored a great deal of world history (especially Eastern Civilization), it did tend to start with…
Kim and I find ourselves talking about our toy poodle, Buddy, with people who have come over for the first time and just met him, invoking a somewhat apologetic manner since Buddy can be a bit of a handful. We find ourselves saying that when we got him two years ago he was much worse and that he has really mellowed out over that time. Clearly, Buddy is getting more mature and is now a…
Kindness appears to emerge from multiple interconnected sources, both biological and cultural. From an evolutionary perspective, kindness likely developed because cooperation and mutual aid increased survival chances for our ancestors. We see similar prosocial behaviors across many species – empathy, reciprocal altruism, and care for group members. Our brains seem wired with capacity for empathy through mirror neurons and emotional contagion, allowing us to feel something of what others experience. There’s also a developmental dimension.…