Back in 1961, when my mother brought my sisters and I up to Madison, Wisconsin from Turialba, Costa Rica, I started at the local elementary school into the prescribed second grade as the back-to-school season began. Within two weeks I had frustrated my teacher to the point where my mother was called in for a conference to discuss my schooling. It seemed that my one year of one-room schoolhouse education on the tropical grounds of…
Life has a way of happening in waves and right now we are in a travel planning wave. Note that I said travel planning, not travel. We are actually having a pretty light travel year due to modest planning and unforeseen changes which have caused us to cancel on two trips. That has left us with one foreign trip in September, one foreign trip in early 2027 and then a whole bunch of conversations which…
The thing about living out here in San Diego is that the weather is, simply perfect. I just asked Claude where the best place to live in the United States is in terms of comfort. Claude went through the preference Q&A needed to answer that sort of question, asking me about what sort of temperature I preferred (mild 60’s-70’s rather than warm 70’s-80’s) and what I wanted to avoid the most (humidity rather than cold/snow)…
When we bought this hilltop in early 2012, Mexican immigration was at a historically low point. 2011 represented the trough of a decade-long decline in Mexican migration driven by the 2008–09 financial crisis, a strengthening Mexican economy, and dramatically increased US border enforcement. After the Great Recession in 2007–2008, migration from Mexico declined sharply, falling from 1,089,092 apprehensions in fiscal year 2006 to 340,252 apprehensions in fiscal year 2011. Around the same time, the number…
As I mentioned before, my favorite painting is one that hangs in our living room directly over the etagere that I bought in Toronto 36 years ago. That etagere is home to all the most interesting and emblematic curios and artifacts that I and we have collected over the last seventy years. To be fair, some of them were really collected by my mother during her travels across Latin America as well, but they have…
I just had a silly epiphany today. I’m scheduled to take a Cinco de Mayo motorcycle ride for five days up to Utah and back. Four of us will ride up to Lake Las Vegas, across the San Jacintos and across the Mojave, join two others coming up fro Phoenix, and then head up through the Pinto Valley Wilderness north of Lake Mead, through the Virgin Valley Gorge to Zion, to the Lodge at Red…
Occupational Therapy and what it actually does has become a topic for me lately. The name is genuinely misleading. Despite “occupational” suggesting job-related work (big shudder from the retirement community…especially Gary), the term uses occupation in its broader sense… any meaningful activity that occupies your time and gives your life structure and purpose. That includes self-care, work, leisure, social participation, and everything in between. The core purpose of occupational therapy (OT) is to help people…
There are certain expressions that always immediately remind me of great movie lines, and one of those is from the Robert Redford and Brad Pitt movie Spy Games. The line is about a little code that that Redford and Pitt establish between themselves that starts with a hip flask gift that Pitt gets for Redford. They are hanging out in Beirut and Pitt gets his CIA support team to order the flask for Redford under…
Body image is a person’s perception, thoughts, feelings, and attitudes toward their own physical appearance. How you see yourself when you look in the mirror, how you imagine you look to others, and how you feel about your body’s size, shape, and features. Psychologists generally break body image into four dimensions: perceptual (how accurately you see your own body), affective (how you feel about your appearance), cognitive (the thoughts and beliefs you hold about your…
People grow continuously throughout life. While that is a true statement, the picture is more nuanced than simple linear growth. What clearly continues throughout life are the obvious things like wisdom and judgment, which tend to improve well into old age. In terms of emotional regulation, most people genuinely get better at managing feelings over the decades, that that is not a universal truth by any means. Vocabulary and crystallized knowledge (accumulated facts, expertise) certainly…