The phrase “Women: can’t live with them and can’t live without them” has a surprisingly deep lineage. The most ancient roots of the sentiment (perhaps not the exact wording), goes back to the Ancient Greek writer of comedy, Aristophanes, who expressed the core idea in Lysistrata in 411 B.C. Lysistrata is one of the most audacious comedies ever written and yet it was written during the brutal later years of the Peloponnesian War (Athens vs.…
I did something today that I have only done a handful of times since 2020, but which I have done countless times over the course of my life. In fact, maybe I can count the times. I would estimate that I’ve done it over 700 times, and with a few exceptions along the way, I’ve always done it with different people. I’m not so different than most men my age in this regard. I probably…
Back when I was in college, I had a roommate named Gary who I still see every once in a blue moon. Gary is a very smart guy who always had a finger on the pulse of popular culture, perhaps more than most. For some reason, I always remember one of the things he said during freshman year, long before my mind had turned from dreams of being an engineer (like most boys, I had…
A few years ago, Olivia Newton John regrettably fell prey to her long battle with breast cancer. She was 73, so way too young. She began her career in the late 1960s in Australia and the UK, and made her Billboard Hot 100 debut in 1971. She built a reputation as a soft-spoken country-pop singer, winning the Grammy for Best Female Country Vocal Performance in 1974. Her 1974 hit I Honestly Love You went to…
This morning I’m thinking about a riff on Samuel Coleridge’s Rime of the Ancient Mariner, “Water, water, every where, / Nor any drop to drink.” One of literature’s great ironies is that even while surrounded by ocean, one can die of thirst. The irony of the name…and my name…is not lost on me. The quote is rich with symbolism and paradox. The poem itself captures Coleridge’s symbolism of the albatross, which stands for sin and…
Gold may be the single most consequential material in human history. Gold was almost certainly the first metal humans ever worked, simply because it occurs in pure form in nature with no smelting required. The oldest known gold artifacts date to around 4,600 BC, found in the Varna Necropolis in modern Bulgaria. Those were grave goods that already suggest gold’s association with status, divinity, and the afterlife. Egypt became the ancient world’s great gold power.…
I wrote last August about a visit I had from my old Roman motorcycling friend, Mike Cobbold, who now lives in Sacramento. I mentioned in my Roman Memories story that Mike has struggled with some physical limitations due to a combination of many years of Type 1 Diabetes, the connected autoimmune condition of Rheumatoid Arthritis, and some strokes… all possibly genetic or perhaps signs of a life lived hard and well in the wilderness. On…
In some ways its a perfectly normal late spring on the hilltop and in other ways its all a little bit different. The normal part is that San Diego weather is just about as nice as one could ask it to be. While we had a little heat wave glory a few months ago, since then I would say it’s been very mild. The rainfall has been a little bit above normal (about 115%) with…
When big geopolitical summits take place it is sometimes hard to tell who has the power stroke and who is coming off as the groveler. Sometimes there’s a strong meeting of the minds and a palpable sense that great things were accomplished. Other times it appears that the two sides are talking at cross purposes and things only get more rather than less at odds at the end. And then there is a third type…
Ever since 2016 and especially since 2024, I, like many like-minded, liberally-inclined Americans that have worried about the political drift of out nation and its impact on the world have tried to find ways to do our part to move towards a solution to our concerns and our state of play. I start by declaring quite frankly that for most of my adult life I have lived in a benign neglect for the political machinations.…