Now You Feel It, Now You Don’t When I was about nine years old and already living in a twelve-year-old’s body, I was playing street football in our crackerbox development in Madison, Wisconsin. Those were lean graduate school days for my mother and family, and I either didn’t have a proper pair of sneakers or was too lazy to go home and put them on, so I was wearing leather-soled tie shoes when I went…
The Basic Basics This morning while showering, i started thinking about the difference between things we need and things we want. Let’s start by admitting that we all in this country are blessed by abundance and have pretty much all that we need at all times. It was Abraham Maslow, who in his now famous 1943 paper “A Theory of Human Motivation”, established what we now know as Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. It may just…
It Doesn’t Get Better Literally, as I wrote this title, I realized that these words can move in many different ways. But I decided to stick with it because I am of two minds this morning anyway. I will start with the negative and move towards the positive. I had a real toss and turn night last night and I wish I could attribute it just to my sciatica and lower back discomfort that I…
Finding a Better Way Once the dust settled at the county fair and we realized that I had bought a huge massage chair that looks like a cross between an Eero Saarinen design and something for sale at Hammacher Schlemmer, I needed a solution. Since I was economical enough to buy a floor model (with full warranty coverage and only driven by little old ladies at the fair), I had no choice but to take…
Being Predictable On Sunday we went to the San Diego County Fair, ostensibly to watch Kim perform with her vocal group, but really because who doesn’t like an old fashioned county fair? I was not part of the 4H crowd like my friend Frank. He was a real farm boy who drove tractors and kept chickens to sell the eggs. For him, going to the county fair was like the culmination of all the hard…
Personal Screens I know it is popular to talk about how so much screen time for kids is harmful for their development, but I’m less sure of that than ever. I am sitting in my living room with my two granddaughters, who are eleven and eight years old. They are each on their own iPads wrapped in protective and colorful plastic bumpers. I’ve asked them what they are doing and Charlotte, the older one was…
Back to Normal? I want to explore for a moment why everything feels like it’s back to normal today. First of all, I’m not entirely sure what normal means anymore. For many years (1976 – 2019…43 years) normal meant getting up and being consumed by work for most of the day, any and every day, and then squeezing in other life activities like family and friends whenever and wherever they fit around the edges. Yesterday,…
Sleeping It Off It’s the morning of July 4th and I am bone tired. I actually have a decent reason for that. My daughter and her family of four flew in last night. It was late last night because while we reserved the flight more than four months ago, this is a big travel year as we read about more and more every day. Making up for COVID may be a part of it, but…
Things I Do Not Understand I know that most of you are thinking this is going to be an extraordinarily long story given the title, but I will try to keep it down to my usual size and declare right up front that this is not intended to be a comprehensive list of things I do not understand, but just the ones that are on my mind today. We are on our last day at…
The Heat is On Here in Virginia Beach, it is 86 degrees with 76% humidity, which my weather app says makes it feel like 98 degrees. If you asked anyone in our party, especially those who wandered through the USS Wisconsin, going four decks below the water line into the bowels of this steel battleship, they would add about another 15 degrees to that. I checked our hilltop and see that it is 84 degrees…