Fiction/Humor Memoir

Proof of Life

As I have mentioned, I am going through the process of applying for dual citizenship from Italy by virtue of my father’s birthright as an Italian citizen. I am doing this for myself and my youngest son, Thomas, who really prompted the process. To do this we have to go through what is called a judicial review process and that requires a whole lot of documentation. The company I am using to do this is…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir

Under the Influence

The other day, Kim and I came to the realization that we had absolutely nothing planned for this weekend. Kim had no shows or show rehearsals. Due to school-ending season, most of the movies out in the market are kids movies. There were no neighborhood events. Nothing, not even necessary shopping chores. My daughter and her brood arrive next weekend and our dance card will be actively filled for a month with activities and lots…

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Business Advice Fiction/Humor Memoir

A Crisp White Shirt

At various times, the classic white shirt has been denigrated as stodgy and yet used repeatedly by cool dudes with the top few buttons open to exemplify the height of refined male couture. When I went to work in NYC after business school in 1976, the white shirt was more the former than the latter. It was legendary that if you worked at IBM you had no choice, you had to wear a white shirt…

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Memoir

What Matters

I am wide awake yet again tonight. If someone asked me if I have trouble sleeping, I don’t think I would say I do. But there are nights like tonight that are enough to make me wonder. I know all the things you are supposed to do to get a good night’s sleep and equally all the things you are supposed to not do to keep yourself from getting a good night’s sleep, but that…

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Memoir Politics

Betwixt

How are we supposed to feel about the U.S. bombing of Iran last night? For almost 50 years we and Iran have been at odds with one another. They have, indeed, called for the annihilation of both Israel and the U.S.. Thry have been at the center of much of the terrorism cloud that has blanketed the globe since 9/11 and before. Their fundamentalist way of life is anathema to our western liberal democratic ideology.…

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Memoir Politics

The Calm Before the Storm

The Cuban Missile Crisis was a 13-day confrontation in October 1962 between the United States and Soviet Union that brought the world to the brink of nuclear war. It’s widely considered the closest the Cold War came to escalating into a full-scale nuclear conflict. I was eight years old at the time and living in the heartland of Madison, Wisconsin. While my mother got her graduate degrees at the University of Wisconsin, I attended Spring…

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Memoir

All Mink, No Knickers

My friend Steven and I had an exchange this morning that involved British witticisms. It started with “Bob’s your uncle” and went immediately to “And Fannie’s your aunt.” “Bob’s your uncle” is a classic British expression meaning “and there you have it” or “it’s as simple as that!” It’s used to indicate that something is easily accomplished or completed. For example: “Just add the flour, mix it in, and Bob’s your uncle – you’ve got…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir

Compressionable

I understand that to some people, writing a blog is extremely self-absorbed. There is truth to this to be sure. I have said many times that I write for myself and if others choose to read it and find interest in it, so be it. I do not focus on my readership statistics despite every effort by my blogging service to tell me who is reading me and how much they are reading me. Recently…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir

Micro-Fees

The other day, while talking to my friend Steven on the phone, he asked me if I was doing OK financially. It was an unusual comment, especially from someone who used to work for me for many years. I didn’t take offense at the question and gave my usual litany of things that have drained money from my wealth over the years, but I basically responded that I was doing just fine. That is the…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir

Life Affirming

We went to see a movie yesterday, first because it was Sunday and that’s what we tend to do on Sundays, but also because we wanted to do something out of the house with visiting friends Gary & Oswaldo. Oh, and by the way, it was also Fathers Day. We had had a nice weekend with them, but other than going to Kim’s show for a few hours, we hadn’t much gotten out of the…

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