Memoir

Going Fast or Going Slow

About a year ago, our friend Melisa decided that she wanted to put in a zen garden in the front of her house in a spot defined by the alcove created by her home’s architectural design as determined by a large boulder that sits imbedded in the earth in that alcove. These giant granite boulders that are strewn all over these hillsides in this part of the state are sometimes of defined size and shape…

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Memoir

Untraveling

If you read my blog, you know by now that I have been threatening to reduce my international travel for a number of years and I have continued to wrestle with the issue because every time I try to find my way to a reduction plan, I end up doing what I’ve done this year, which is to plan three international trips during the year which is somewhere between one and three too many. My…

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Memoir

Artificial Everything

Today I read an article about the assault on higher education being perpetrated by Chat GPT and other AI bots. It was a disturbing article because it seemed far too relatable to my own experience. I was teaching a business ethics course at University of San Diego in November 2022 when Chat GPT was released. That semester was over, so the first semester that Chat GPT was in full swing with the student population was…

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Business Advice Memoir

Money, Money, Money

The year I started working after business school, 1976, ABBA released their hit song, Money, Money, Money with the tag line, “It’s a rich man’s world.” I recently read that in the clamber to build out AI capabilities as quickly as possible, the expanding array of AI companies, ranging from the monster tech companies like Microsoft, Google and Meta, as well as the start-ups like Safe Superintelligence (SSI) that are popping up like mushrooms after…

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Memoir

Americana Maximus

One of my favorite summertime activities in the past few years involves trekking south for 45 minutes to Coronado Island for a Sunday night free concert in Spreckels Park on Orange Avenue, the main drag of this beach community. John Diedrich Spreckels (August 16, 1853 – June 7, 1926) was an American businessman who founded a transportation and real estate empire here in San Diego in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. His legacy…

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Memoir

In My Face

The start of this summer on the hilltop has been particularly pleasant. A few years ago I spent four full months, with a crew of three workmen, rebuilding our deck. It is a large deck of about 900 square feet that has folding glass doors that open the kitchen completely to it and two sliding doors from the living room out to it. It’s surface is a slip-resistant travertine tile and the railing is expensive…

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Memoir

Temper Tantrum

A temper tantrum is an emotional outburst characterized by sudden, intense displays of anger, frustration, or distress. They’re most commonly associated with young children (typically ages 1-4) but can occur at any age. In young children, tantrums are a normal part of development. They happen because toddlers have big emotions but limited language skills and self-regulation abilities. Common triggers include tiredness, hunger, overstimulation, or not getting what they want. Managing tantrums typically involves staying calm…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir Retirement

Looking, Acting and Being Old

We may occasionally try to pretend that the wisdom of age and perhaps the hurdles to attaining a ripe old age make the aged revered. Bullshit. The only honest comment along those lines is that growing old is better than the alternative. There is truth to the fact that wisdom and experience, which mostly only come with age, have value. If only I knew then what I know now is a very common thought that…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir

It’s a Bad, Bad, Bad, Bad World

When I was 9 years old and living in the middle of Midwestern America, taking a weekly bath and eating Swanson TV dinners while my mother toiled away in graduate school, the blockbuster movie of the year was It’s a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World. This 1963 American comedy was produced and directed by Stanley Kramer and starred Spencer Tracy and the best known comedians of that era including Milton Berle, Sid Caesar, Buddy Hackett,…

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