Love Memoir Retirement

Bob’s Your Uncle

Bob’s Your Uncle When I come up with a story title that is a familiar expression to me, given that I have now written and posted 652 stories on this blog, I like to check myself and make sure I haven’t already used the title once before. Yes, I have actually found myself doing that and I’m not embarrassed to say that. I consider it less about a failing memory and more about finding an…

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Memoir

The Continuance of Life

The Continuance of Life Over the weekend I spent five hours preparing for giving testimony as an expert witness in an arbitration hearing that was scheduled to start today and was to be advanced and ready for my expert testimony and cross-examination tomorrow morning. You have to have a thick skin to put yourself out there as an expert witness. Part of the game is to let the opposing counsel have at you as to…

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Memoir Retirement

We’re Having a Heat Wave

We’re Having a Heat Wave There are many things to learn about life in retirement, life in Southern California and life in the mid-stage of the Western COVID resurgence. Let’s start with COVID. Life on the hilltop remains largely unchanged except that I am back to having Handy Brad wear a mask when we interact, less because of the resurgence and more because he flew to the belly of the beast in Dallas last weekend…

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Love Memoir Politics

Educating Myself

Educating Myself My daughter called me today very concerned about Mayor DeBlasio’s announcement that he intends on opening NYC public schools in the Fall, but only for two or three days per week, so more or less half time.  The idea is to use existing facilities and using them to the maximum social distancing capacity and filling in with online learning of the sort used this Spring around the world.  She was both concerned about…

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Memoir Politics

TikTok Hong Kong

Tik-Tok Hong Kong Some places in the world just can’t ever seem to avoid being on a schedule and always racing against the clock. Hong Kong seems to have caught this disease in extremis. The Nineteenth Century was a time of great fascination by the world in China. Since the days of Marco Polo in the late Thirteenth Century, Europe has been drawn to China and its exotic goods. The tales brought back by Marco…

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Love Memoir

We Laugh and We Cry

We Laugh and We Cry Kim’s best friend Cecil died this morning. He had a heart condition for some years and despite Kim’s best efforts to medicate him, exercise him, cook healthy fresh food for him, and brushing his teeth every evening to keep the plaque monster at bay, he still died. We can’t be sure, but the very empathetic vet who cared for him in his last hour said he believed it was his…

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Love Memoir

We Laugh and We Cry

We Laugh and We Cry Kim’s best friend Cecil died this morning. He had a heart condition for some years and despite Kim’s best efforts to medicate him, exercise him, cook healthy fresh food for him, and brushing his teeth every evening to keep the plaque monster at bay, he still died. We can’t be sure, but the very empathetic vet who cared for him in his last hour said he believed it was his…

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Fiction/Humor Love Memoir

He Made Me Laugh

He Made Me Laugh He was not 2,000 years old, but only 98. He did not invent the cure for cancer or climate warming. He did not lead the nation through a devastating war. He did not make any big feature award-winning films or wright Top-40 songs. He did not run for or hold any grand public offices. He did father one of the great movie-makers and TV sitcom stars of our age in Rob…

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The New York Dreams

The New York Dreams Kim, through her Facebook traipsing, heard of a series called American Experience: New York done by Ric Burns, younger brother to famed documentarian Ken Burns. It is a historical perspective from the western origins as a Dutch colony in 1609. There are chapters of this documentary like any good series and it is all done chronologically naturally. Given my forty-four years living in New York and Kim’s thirty years, the city…

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Memoir Retirement

The Spectrum of Life

The Spectrum of Life When I acquired my house in Ithaca twenty-four years ago (1996), it is fair to suggest that the technological world looked a lot different than it does today. Back then, the important elements to consider in a home were to have water, sewer, electricity, gas and telephone connectivity. The first four were easy since the United States had had a century of infrastructure roll-out that insured that most every place had…

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