Memoir

Every Picture Tells a Story

Every Picture Tells a Story I am sitting here in my dining room of Homeward Bound, waiting for Kim to finish showering and dressing, after which we will leave for our 3,000 trek to California. It is one of those weird waiting moments that I hate to waste and choose to find something to write about. This morning I am looking nostalgically at the artwork that I have on these walls. Every picture tells a…

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Memoir Retirement

Working It

Working It When I started college, I began as an engineering student at Cornell, one of the best engineering schools in the U.S. Like so many young men, I tended to show stronger grades and test scores for math and science than for verbal. That and a romantic sense of manly endeavors in the engineering world made me think that I wanted to be a civil or perhaps operations engineer. I actually did well in…

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Love Memoir

Dog Day Morning

Dog Day Morning It’s only 9:30am and I’m already worn out. Youngest son Thomas arrived last night at midnight with Candice, our retired schoolteacher friend, and Hank, his “Dorky” Dachshund/Yorkie mix one-year-old pup with the Yoda ears. After five hours in the car the order of the evening was; 1. Bathroom (Candice rest stop), , 2. Let Hank run around, 3. Bathroom (Abe the Havanese, peeing on the dining room rug in anxiety of Hank’s…

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Love Memoir

The End of the World

The End of the World Last night Kim and I went to diner st the house of a friend from business school. I knew John quite well during my eighteen months the Graduate Business School at Cornell (then called B&PA, now called the Johnson School….part of the Johnson College of Business at Cornell….too long of a naming story to recite in full here and now). I think its fair to say that John was the…

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Memoir

Dog Fight at Homeward Bound

Dog Fight at Homeward Bound When Roger and Carolyn were little, a movie came out that they were desperate to see. It was 1993 and it was called Homeward Bound; The Incredible Journey. It chronicled the ever-endearing saga of three pets joining forces to try to get back home through the wilderness. Chance, Sassy and Shadow don’t start off as friends but develop their rapport through the trials of the journey. For an animal kids…

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Memoir

Arts & Crafts

Arts & Crafts All through my youth in Middle America (not so much when living the survivalist regime in the tropics or the ethereal existence in Rome) I kept getting taught about how to do arts & crafts. In some sort of shop course in middle school in Middleton, Wisconsin (I was actually in middle school in Middleton in Middle America), I had to make a pump lamp where the pump handle was attached to…

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Business Advice Memoir

B2B2B2B

B2B2B2B Back in late 1999, my buddy Bruce, who was a partner with me at Bankers Trust for many years, introduced me to two guys from Madison Avenue. One (Sam) he had known as a family friend for years and the other was his partner (Terry) for years. We thought of it as two Wall Street guys meet two Mad Men. Bruce and I had run our course with Bankers Trust, which sold to Deutsche…

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Love Memoir

Sitting Still

Sitting Still I am over at my daughter’s home in Brooklyn. It is a duplex in Columbia Waterfront, which is a happening part of Brooklyn, the most happening Borough in New York. Before the pandemic, this area was almost too hot, with people like my daughter and her family wondering how they could NOT sell to capture the crazy appreciation in house values. About eight and a half years ago, my daughter surprised me at…

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Love Memoir

The Big Fix

The Big Fix Yesterday was a near perfect weather day here in Ithaca and I used it to good purpose to make a bunch of decisions and to fix a bunch of things. Some days nothing seems to work right and you just stumble through hoping for the best and needing the assurance that you are not just a complete screw-up that can make nothing happen right. Yesterday was different. Everything I touched and thought…

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