Mothers Day This morning my sister Kathy and I received a text from my sister Barbara with a picture of my mother’s grave marker. The marker is a bronze image of our mother in her youth, her DOB and DOD spanning 100+ years, and the expression of love, “We will look for you always.” It still, four years since her death, brings a pang to my heart. I feel the need to examine that sentiment…
The Beverly Hillbillies While son Thomas is here this week we want him to have the opportunity to see everyone he can. Therefore, we planned a day up in L.A. even though I am always intimidated to drive up into L.A. traffic. Intimidation isn’t really the right word, but I definitely don’t like L.A. traffic. And L.A. sits like a massive lump in the middle of the state. It extends east/west from the beach at…
Homebody Betty For eleven years we had Cecil and he followed the nature of his Bichon breed and could never be left alone, even for a few hours, since his high anxiety nature would cause him to do strange retaliatory things. For instance, once when he left alone for a few hours, he jumped up onto the kitchen table and peed all over it. That sort of action can only be designed to pass a…
Of Horseshoes and Hand Grenades Woulda, coulda, shoulda. It’s the story of the investment world as told by the non-billionaires among us. I didn’t get involved in venture capital early enough to ask myself what I would have returned on a Microsoft or Apple investment if I had gone in pre-IPO in the 1980’s (Apple IPO was 1980 and Microsoft was 1986). I was focused and busy with my banking career back then and that…
Everything Brakes What causes me to write under this mixed-message title is the fact that on our recent trip up north I noticed that on long down-hill highway stretches, the brakes of the 2019 Mercedes Benz GLS 450 that we drive, started to pulsate. This is not a good feeling with something as critical to vehicle safety as braking. Pulsating brakes seem like a big deal to me and without any particular regard to what…
The Fight of the Century Imagine being on a motorcycle trip through Turkey during a Trump-inspired war (of a sort) between Turkey and neighboring Syria. Now imagine being a very left-leaning liberal who has been struggling for several years to comprehend how America got to such a low-point as to actually elect a dolt like Trump to the highest office in the land, nay, the world. You find yourself amidst a group of close friends…
Mendocino In 1969, a small, obscure rock/blues/country band called Sir Douglas Quintet came out with a song about their newfound state’s groovy northern coast. Mendocino was born in April that year and spent 27 weeks on the Billboard charts, topping out at 27th. That carried it through Woodstock, when the music world shifted. In fact, one could go so far as to say that a Texas-originated band like Sir Douglas Quartet, that clearly took on…
El Camino Real We have just finished our tour of fourteen of the California Missions, meaning that we have now visited all twenty-one full-fledged missions that were established by the Spaniards who pushed north from Mexico into Las Californias to explore and settle this wondrous land between 1683 and 1835. Las Californias consisted of three sections ranging from Cabo San Lucas at the southern tip of what we call Baja California up to Sonoma, north…
Summering in Winter I know it’s not yet summer and that we are still two months away from calendar summer, but we have had enough 80-degree days so far this year and that causes me to call this functional summer. We are on our trip up to Mendocino for a few days, spending our first night on Moonstone Beach. Mark Twain is attributed with having said that the coldest winter he ever spent was a…
Making a Music Video Kim has always had and still has a passion for music. From singing and dancing in the girl’s room in Kindergarten to studying theater at Indiana University to doing the Broadway musical roadshow circuit to playing cabaret to being Board President of Singnasium, Kim is all about music. She is constantly taking classes at Singnasium. Here favorites have been jazz singing and scatting with Gabrielle Stravelli. She is currently taking a…