Flowering Trees I have written before about my obsession with trees. There is just something comforting and stable about trees. They are big and lasting and weather most storms of any sort. I would suggest that bushes are fussy, but trees are regal. My favorite painting is of a tree on the pampas of Patagonia. I have planted eleven trees on my property in the past four years. They range from a very mature Irish…
Running and Swimming My daughter, Carolyn, who is spending the month of July with us here on the hilltop, is a marathoner. She has run nine NYC Marathons and countless half-marathons. Last year while she was here, she tried running in the neighborhood only to find it too hilly and too warm for her, so this year she has asked me to take her to the gym so she can run on the treadmills. The…
Nature’s Clock There are certain aspects of nature that we all take for granted. We are all accustomed to the sun rising every day and setting at the end of that day. We have systematized the celestial processes so that we publish reports on when sunrise and sunset will occur. We do the same thing when it comes to the moon and the cycles of the moon and the tides along with it. Seasons are…
Now You Feel It, Now You Don’t When I was about nine years old and already living in a twelve-year-old’s body, I was playing street football in our crackerbox development in Madison, Wisconsin. Those were lean graduate school days for my mother and family, and I either didn’t have a proper pair of sneakers or was too lazy to go home and put them on, so I was wearing leather-soled tie shoes when I went…
The Basic Basics This morning while showering, i started thinking about the difference between things we need and things we want. Let’s start by admitting that we all in this country are blessed by abundance and have pretty much all that we need at all times. It was Abraham Maslow, who in his now famous 1943 paper “A Theory of Human Motivation”, established what we now know as Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. It may just…
It Doesn’t Get Better Literally, as I wrote this title, I realized that these words can move in many different ways. But I decided to stick with it because I am of two minds this morning anyway. I will start with the negative and move towards the positive. I had a real toss and turn night last night and I wish I could attribute it just to my sciatica and lower back discomfort that I…
Finding a Better Way Once the dust settled at the county fair and we realized that I had bought a huge massage chair that looks like a cross between an Eero Saarinen design and something for sale at Hammacher Schlemmer, I needed a solution. Since I was economical enough to buy a floor model (with full warranty coverage and only driven by little old ladies at the fair), I had no choice but to take…
Being Predictable On Sunday we went to the San Diego County Fair, ostensibly to watch Kim perform with her vocal group, but really because who doesn’t like an old fashioned county fair? I was not part of the 4H crowd like my friend Frank. He was a real farm boy who drove tractors and kept chickens to sell the eggs. For him, going to the county fair was like the culmination of all the hard…
Personal Screens I know it is popular to talk about how so much screen time for kids is harmful for their development, but I’m less sure of that than ever. I am sitting in my living room with my two granddaughters, who are eleven and eight years old. They are each on their own iPads wrapped in protective and colorful plastic bumpers. I’ve asked them what they are doing and Charlotte, the older one was…
Back to Normal? I want to explore for a moment why everything feels like it’s back to normal today. First of all, I’m not entirely sure what normal means anymore. For many years (1976 – 2019…43 years) normal meant getting up and being consumed by work for most of the day, any and every day, and then squeezing in other life activities like family and friends whenever and wherever they fit around the edges. Yesterday,…