The Art of Turning the Other Cheek I am constantly amazed at all the opportunities I get to declare that no good deed goes unpunished. I am well aware that I spent 45 years on Wall Street and developed a thick skin and an ability to joust with the best of them. I know that normal guy trash talking has become the standard and that joking around with your pals is the norm in modern…
The Sedona Vortex We have come to Sedona for the weekend to attend the wedding of my niece Nichole. Nichole is the daughter of my sister Barbara. She attended Cornell and travelled with me and my kids overseas on several occasions, so I got to know her pretty well in her youth. Nichole was an interesting college student. She studied Art History in school and as a bright and attractive young woman, she managed to…
Take a Deep Breath I have been 70 for a long time. I don’t know what it is about me that wants to rush my aging, but it has been almost a year now that when asked my age I have said that I was 70. The truth is that I will turn 70 officially in 30 days. Last night when we watched the ball drop in Times Square, for one reason or another they…
Busy Buddy Our lives have been changed in the past two weeks, and as often the case with people who get new pets, it is almost all due to Buddy. In a nutshell, Buddy is a five-pound ball of energy, trying hard to run with the big dogs. He sleeps like a champ since he is still very much a puppy of only 14 months, but once he wakes up he is on the go.…
My Favorite Things It’s Christmas Eve day and given that it’s Sunday, this is a pretty lazy day. The family horde has yet to descend. I have started the day with a few of my favorite things. After a good night’s sleep and nice hot shower, I got dressed for the holiday. That caused me to spend a moment thinking about my wardrobe. One of the things I have always managed to do is to…
The Quiet Moments I am currently running about seven or eight days ahead of myself with my daily story writing. i go through cycles when I am ahead like this and when I am chasing my tail to get out a story to meet my daily morning deadline. Lately I have tended towards running ahead by as few as two or three days to a maximum of ten days. I don’t like to get too…
Lifetime Buddy About twenty years ago when Dustin Hoffman was 67 years old, I happened to hear him speak about one of the films he had just made. Perhaps it was Runaway Jury or Finding Neverland, but the point is that he was invited to talk about the film at the New York Director’s Guild Theater on 57th Street. I was a member of a DG Film Club that regularly heard from actors, directors and…
It’s Always Sunny in San Diego Life is temporarily back to normal around the hilltop. We are in between travels and yet still ten days until the Christmas hordes descend upon us. The decorations are 100% up outdoors and 95% done in the house, so we are as ready as we are going to be. The present wrapping is well advanced thanks to Kim and Melisa dedicating much of yesterday to the task. I too…
Fire And Ice Kim had her annual gala for Singnasium, the New York based cabaret singing school of which she is the founding and now outgoing President of the Board. I have told her dozens of times that as the head of the Board and not an employee, she should not be the President but rather the Chairperson of the Board, but that has all fallen on deaf ears. These are cabaret people after all…
Celebrating Life Human being like to celebrate. We celebrate births and deaths and everything in between. The biggest ones tend to be around marriage, holidays and the ubiquitous birthday celebrations. Many of us have occasionally grown weary of some of the celebrations. In a large work team, celebrating every person’s birthday and special events could take up an inordinate amount of time and resources so they are either foregone or done in bulk every month…