Being Kind is Cool My granddaughter Evelyn arrived with her family yesterday and after the hugs and car loading we headed off from the airport to go to a lunch spot we like on San Diego Bay. We use to like our visits to San Diego to start that way and like to show our guests the same pleasurable entry point. Once we had sat down I could finally look at my granddaughters and chat…
The Kids are All Right In 2010 there was a movie that may have missed your screen. It was with Annette Bening, Julianne Moore and Mark Ruffalo and it was called The Kids are All Right. It is a story about three adults in a love triangle specifically because of two of them having parented a few kids who were coming of age. As America and the world ages day-by-day, I suspect we will get…
Doubt For some reason, tonight I chose to put on the Meryl Streep, Philip Seymour Hoffman and Amy Adams movie from 2008 called Doubt. It is an interesting movie about a Catholic priest in a working class neighborhood that is the subject of scrutiny about his relationship with a young black student, as instigated by an older very cynical mother superior and a young more sympathetic teacher/nun. The story is about the attitudes of people…
Waiting For Miss Betty It was almost three years ago that we adopted Betty (a.k.a. Cheyanne, the senior stray dog that was picked up on the streets of East L.A.). Betty has diabetes and, at the time we adopted her, was blind and scrawny. She has since had her teeth fixed (mostly pulled), had cataract surgery, and put on a regimen of daily eye drops and vitamins, not to mention a combination of very healthy…
A Really Good Week I have always considered myself an extreme optimist. I feel that while the direct connections between thinking positively and actually accomplishing things is hard to draw, I do stand by the power of positive thinking as a force magnifier. There is little doubt in my mind that people prefer to be around positive attitudes than naysayers and that having other people on your side always helps get things done. That said,…
Chicken Soup When I got home yesterday, I learned that Kim has happened upon some sort of cold virus during the week. She made it through this morning for the departure of her sister and nephew, but then she crashed and crashed hard. She went back to bed before 10am and basically spent the day there recuperating with Betty by her side, snoozing away. Meanwhile I spent my morning doing and errand or two and…
Singing in the Rain We are in NYC for the weekend to see the kids. We specifically came this weekend because our youngest granddaughter, Evelyn, is performing in a choral group today out at The Theater at City Tech in downtown Brooklyn. She will be amongst about 100 of here fellow choral boys and girls and she is thrilled to be in the front row so that we can all see and hear her clearly.…
Ringing the Bell When we moved here more than three years ago, we had to make lots of arrangements to accommodate being here full time rather than only once in a while. We had owned the house for eight years while we thought about when the right time to retire might be. On Wall Street, for various reasons including the stress of the work and the hard head banging that goes on in the business,…
What Frustrates Me Being at peace is all about not sweating the small stuff. I see myself and many people with whom I interact getting frustrated very easily. Frustration seems like it is most often part of the “small stuff”. I just now typed the word “needlessly” to modify the word “frustrated” in the prior sentence and chose to delete it since it is judgmental to say what I or anyone else considers legitimately frustrating.…
Emotional Outlet I can’t seem to stop tinkering with my gardens. It must go hand in hand with my jiggling leg syndrome. When you’re a kid they called it having ants in your pants. As an adult it’s called any number of things from nervous energy to OCD. What I have is far less difficult than an obsession and far less aggressive than a compulsion, but it is some sort of disorder nonetheless. Kim is…