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Why Do I Exist?

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

This is a profound philosophical question that has been pondered throughout human history. There are many perspectives on why humans exist, depending on different philosophical, religious, scientific, and cultural viewpoints. From an evolutionary perspective, humans exist as a result of natural selection and biological processes that have unfolded over millions of years. We didn’t come into being for a purpose; rather, we emerged through evolutionary mechanisms. That is the definition of Darwinism and it exhibits…

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A Good Year

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

One of my favorite movies is a Russell Crowe film from almost twenty years ago called A Good Year. The attraction to me is somewhat obvious. It is the story of a kick-ass London bond trader who inherits an estate in Provence from his uncle, someone he dearly loved but who he ignored for the past decade as he played out his career ambitions. The set-up is that the trader gets suspended for being too…

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Mothers

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

Tomorrow is Mothers Day and it has caught me somewhat unaware. While I am like most people and regularly forget or ignore Fathers Day, I have done a reasonable job over the years of remembering Mothers Day. I imagine that I am in the top 10% of people who revere their mothers and consider them the primary motivator of their lives. I was raised, from start to finish, by my mother. She is responsible for…

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Papal Debate

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

The Conclave ended yesterday with the elevation of the first American-born pope, who took on the name of Pope Leo XIV. This is viewed as a continuation of the doctrines of Pope Francis, focused on inclusivity and the advocacy of the most marginalized of the world, specifically immigrants. Nothing more defines our epoch of the world than the issue of immigration. I’ve said it before, so I will risk repeating myself by saying that this…

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The Fun of Friends

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

We pick up friends in life in all sorts of ways. Typically, we gather most of our friends from those who live around us. Sometimes its about home and hearth and sometimes its about the workplace. This morning I’m thinking about several specific friends that hold particular and very different meaning to me, but both come from L.A.. One came from my work environment about twenty years ago. The others are friends we lived next…

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On a Clear Day

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

I must have done something right in life. I look around me and the word magical comes to mind. I am blessed with a magical partner in Kim. I know plenty of friends who are satisfied in their marriages, but I know precious few who can say, as I do regularly, that they find themselves more in love with their partner day by day. Kim is not perfect, but whatever imperfections she has are almost…

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I’ve Looked At Clouds From Both Sides

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

This reference to “looking at clouds from both sides now” is from Joni Mitchell’s famous song “Both Sides Now”, which was first recorded in 1968. The song uses clouds as a metaphor for the different perspectives we gain as we experience life.. This song has become one of her most recognizable works, with its poetic reflections on how our perspectives change as we gain life experience. I’m sitting in the dining room on our hilltop…

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What To Do?

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

I have often felt that one of my weaknesses was that I care too much. That sounds like someone in a job interview saying their biggest weakness is that they work too hard. There is no room for humility in the statement, and yet I’m not so sure that people admire caring people so very much. The people who seem to be most liked are those that are happy-go-lucky and always have a cheery disposition.…

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Hands Off

By Rich Marin | by Rich Marin

I started college in August 1971. That was almost after the main protest years of the 1960s had ended…. almost but not quite. The turbulent protest years that characterized the prior decade had peaked in 1969. I always think of the Kent State massacre as that moment. But during the fall of 1971 and the spring of 1972, ostensibly throughout my freshman year, there were still plenty of anti-war protests. As a guy who had…

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