Finding a Better Way Once the dust settled at the county fair and we realized that I had bought a huge massage chair that looks like a cross between an Eero Saarinen design and something for sale at Hammacher Schlemmer, I needed a solution. Since I was economical enough to buy a floor model (with full warranty coverage and only driven by little old ladies at the fair), I had no choice but to take…
Reading Tea Leaves This political cycle has us all so flummoxed that we are left to read tea leaves and coffee grounds in order to divine the future of our nation and planet. Whenever I use a colloquialism or metaphor like “reading tea leaves”, I get curious about where that phrase came from. Tea drinking dates back to China and the first evidence of it comes from some tea leaves found in the tomb of…
Being Predictable On Sunday we went to the San Diego County Fair, ostensibly to watch Kim perform with her vocal group, but really because who doesn’t like an old fashioned county fair? I was not part of the 4H crowd like my friend Frank. He was a real farm boy who drove tractors and kept chickens to sell the eggs. For him, going to the county fair was like the culmination of all the hard…
Being American I have a friend who has been trying very hard to create a theory that at our core all of us Americans are really more alike than different. I’ve heard him mention this theme several times now and then just recently he published a story that he sent to me and to several of our mutual friends who operate at the far more conservative end of the political spectrum. He genuinely wanted us…
I must do a better job of proofreading my stories. I just read what I published and am reminded of an old lawyer friend who had a tag line on all his memos that said “dictated but not read”. No excuse, I will do better.
Personal Screens I know it is popular to talk about how so much screen time for kids is harmful for their development, but I’m less sure of that than ever. I am sitting in my living room with my two granddaughters, who are eleven and eight years old. They are each on their own iPads wrapped in protective and colorful plastic bumpers. I’ve asked them what they are doing and Charlotte, the older one was…
Continuing Confusion It’s now been eight days since the dreaded debate that was heard around the world. The cycling of political emotions has been out of hand and continuously on everyone’s mind. What began as shock and awe turned immediately into taking sides. People on the right have stayed unusually quiet because they just can’t believe their own good fortune for the self-inflicted wounds being perpetrated by their opponents. First, Joe Biden shoots himself in…
Back to Normal? I want to explore for a moment why everything feels like it’s back to normal today. First of all, I’m not entirely sure what normal means anymore. For many years (1976 – 2019…43 years) normal meant getting up and being consumed by work for most of the day, any and every day, and then squeezing in other life activities like family and friends whenever and wherever they fit around the edges. Yesterday,…
Sleeping It Off It’s the morning of July 4th and I am bone tired. I actually have a decent reason for that. My daughter and her family of four flew in last night. It was late last night because while we reserved the flight more than four months ago, this is a big travel year as we read about more and more every day. Making up for COVID may be a part of it, but…
A Voice In The Wilderness Our copy of The Hidden Meadows News was in our mailbox when we got home and it was hard not to notice that Kim’s profile in the local gazette has risen to quite a noticeable level. She and her activities represent 3 out of the 8 pages of editorial coverage in our community and she is pictured 4 times. She was given credit for her “respected” co-leadership of the Garden…