Fiction/Humor Memoir

Das Bagel

The bagel has a rich and complex history that spans centuries and multiple countries. While its exact origins are debated, bagels are believed to have emerged in Jewish communities in Poland, though they have connections to earlier ring-shaped breads from other cultures. Some food historians trace the bagel’s ancestry back to the Arabic world. The earliest known mention of a boiled-then-baked ring-shaped bread can be found in a 13th-century Syrian cookbook, where they were referred…

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Memoir Politics

DE Why?

When did DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion) enter our common parlance? The term “DEI” as an acronym for Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion appears to have entered common parlance relatively recently, though the concepts themselves have deeper historical roots. The concepts of diversity, equity, and inclusion predate the DEI terminology, with their foundations traced back to the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s. In 1964, the Civil Rights Act was passed, prohibiting discrimination based on race,…

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Memoir Politics

Somewhere My Love

Who could be more American than Andy Williams? He sang the theme song from Breakfast at Tiffany’s, Moon River, in 1962 and then never looked back until it was eventual put into the Librsry of Congress a few years ago as a hallmark of Americana. At the height of his success, in 1966, Williams wrote the theme song for another great movie that I’ve written about, Doctor Zhivago. That song was called Somewhere My Love…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir

The Perfect and the Good

There is an old expression about the perfect and the good that states that “Perfect is the enemy of good” or in its original French form, “Le mieux est l’ennemi du bien.” This is attributed to Voltaire and his famous quote has an interesting origin and meaning. He actually attributed this saying to “a wise Italian” in his moral poem “La Bégueule” (1772), where he wrote: “Dans ses écrits, un sage Italien Dit que le…

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Memoir

To Be or Not

For some reason, we engaged in a conversation today about religion. And during the course of that discussion, we determined (with the help of Google) that Catholicism constitutes about 20% of American Christianity, which represents about 46% in total of the religious affiliation of the American population. At the end of WWII, about 80% of Americans identified as members of a Christian faith and only 13% of Americans were unaffiliated with one religion or another.…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir

Ablution Central

Ablutions are ritual washing or cleansing practices, typically performed as part of religious ceremonies or personal hygiene routines. The term comes from the Latin word “ablutio,” meaning “a washing away.” The purpose of ablutions generally relates to spiritual purification, preparing oneself for prayer or worship, or marking transitions between states of ritual purity and impurity. In modern usage, “ablutions” can also refer more generally to the act of washing oneself, particularly in British English. When…

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Business Advice Memoir

Shuffling the Deck Again

I ran the Global Private Banking business of Bankers Trust for most of the 1990’s. At the time, I was quite dogmatic about NOT using my own operation as my money manager. It just seemed too close for comfort given that my personal financial information would be in a system that was accessible by many of the people that worked for me. But when I left that job at the end of the Millennium, I…

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Love

What To Do?

I have often felt that one of my weaknesses was that I care too much. That sounds like someone in a job interview saying their biggest weakness is that they work too hard. There is no room for humility in the statement, and yet I’m not so sure that people admire caring people so very much. The people who seem to be most liked are those that are happy-go-lucky and always have a cheery disposition.…

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Memoir

The Desert Breeze

Yesterday we took a drive out into the Anza Borrego Desert. We went by way of the Safari Park, the ranch town of Ramona and the kitschy s d storied alpine village of Julian. It is a ride we have taken many times before, but never get tired of. There seems always to be a blend of great stories of past visits and new experiences along the way to make for future stories. We usually…

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Fiction/Humor Memoir

Massicci Day

Back in 2015 we all went to Italy and I rented a villa in the northern outskirts of Rome. Having spent my formative high school years in Rome, it seemed like a fun thing to do that summer since my youngest son Thomas was studying in Rome for the summer. We did what we had done a number of times and at other locations, which was to rent a large villa that could accommodate 15…

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