I was just speaking with a friend who out of the blue asked me if I had ever gone through therapy. Needless to say that sort of question makes one sit up and take notice since it is not a question asked in the normal course. Perhaps if there was a broader discussion underway about mental health in general it might be contextually routine, but when it comes out of the blue with a person…
When I was young, one of the things that made absolutely no sense to me was soup. How could anyone feel that a bowl of some flavored liquid, even with a few chunks of meat and a few noodles would be fulfilling? I just didn’t get it and had little or no use for soup. Back in 2002 as I was crossing over into middle age, there were a few years when I got into…
It’s been two weeks since the Trump inauguration and I think its fair to objectively say that its already been a wild ride that seems to be getting wilder by the day. This is proving to be a very confusing moment for many of us and I would like to talk that through. In the past few days I have been contacted by a wider array of old friends and acquaintances than I can ever…
This may be the most important piece I will write in a long time, so please try to stay with me. For over six months now I have been struggling to understand what has happened in this country, specifically what caused the massive shift to the Right which resulted in the election outcome that we are seeing implemented in policies every day now. Perhaps the most startling thing for people like me has been to…
I was never an obsessed comic book reader, but I certainly read my share of DC and Marvel comics as well as the occasional Classics Illustrated, and, truth be told, not an insignificant number of my sister’s Archie & Jughead comics. Superman was still on TV (reruns mostly since it aired from 1952 – 1958), but George Reeves was busy pretending to take off and land from his flying episodes and had little time for…
My kids have outdone themselves this year for my 71st birthday. I always try to make each of their birthday’s special and always have. When my daughter turned 21 in college, I took out a big ad in the campus newspaper, wishing her a happy birthday. This approach seems to have rubbed off on them and every year they get me something for my birthday with varying degrees of effectiveness. Effectiveness defined as getting me…
I’m working through a proposal development process with a young guy who used to be a musician and has now become a podcast marketer. He has a nose ring on one nostril, which I wish he didn’t have, but it doesn’t seem to impact how his brain works. He seems very reasonable and picks up on things quickly even though he is learning about the expert witness business as he goes. You may wonder how…
Small movies sometimes leave big impacts. Such a small movie was the 2002 Hugh Grant / Toni Collette movie, About a Boy. It was written by Nick Hornby, who wrote several other impactful small movies like Wild with Reese Witherspoon, Brooklyn with Saoirse Ronan and An Education with Carey Mulligan and Peter Sarsgaard. I really appreciate well-written scripts and compelling stories rather than all the big, bold action we tend to see mostly in the…
All things in the natural world age. We all grew up laying 20 Questions and we usually started with these categories – “Animal, Vegetable, or Mineral” – come from the Linnaean taxonomy system that were historically used in the parlor game. This basic classification system was popularized in the 18th and 19th centuries and is sometimes called the “Three Kingdoms” classification, though it’s a simplified version of actual taxonomic classification systems. The three categories broadly…
It’s been raining now for over 36 hours, so I think it’s fair to say that the garden has had a good drink. I see that L.A. is already under threat of flash floods and mudslides, particularly in those areas that are dealing with severely scorched earth (literally). For the rest of us, this rain and these raindrops are still feeling like a good thing, especially because the rain looks to be scheduled to stop…